How to look hot in a gay club

August 3, 7 Comments. This is part 2 of the Girl in a Gay Bar Series. To read part 1, the story of my first trip to a gay bar and my first girl-on-girl kiss, click here. Ready for some unsolicited fashion advice on what to wear out on your femme adventure to the lesbian bar? Here it comes! Some of it is tongue-in-cheek, and all of it is entirely based on my own experiences and what works for me.

Moral of the story: Wear whatever the fuck you want, you sexy fierce femme, you. Scarves can be a fun accessory to add to casual up-dos Dramatic top-knots are another great option Classy headbands keep it all together Unnecessary hats — so cute, but so hot! May as well start with it off your face and neck in a style you had complete control over from the comfort of your bathroom mirror.

Here are just a few options for a night on the town: Go bare. Go bold. Go pin-up. Keep in mind that if you do wear make-up out, you may want to invest in some water-proof products. Nobody wants sweaty raccoon-eyes. Because it is. See, I like to dance a lot when I go out. Pick silver!

It catches more light and is more likely to get you spotted by that cute dyke in the corner. Dangle earrings are nice and dress up your outfit, but beware of anything super long, as these have the tendency to get caught on the clothes and hair of the throng of hip-thrusting lesbians around you.

Do you want to lose an earlobe? Statement necklaces and bangles are fun! Would you guys think I was gross if I said "boob floss" right now? Being a femme at a lesbian bar is tough. You heard me.

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Part of having a good time, especially when you are out at night, is feeling good in your skin. You look gorgeous. When I go out to a bar for a drink, I tend to wear tight skirts and a dressy top. I like to be comfortable, so I usually go for black jeans and a tank-top.